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SamuraiSam
09-01-2007, 06:54 PM
Hello to everyone! This is my first post here, and I'm hoping everyone will find it a worthwhile one. Now I'm sure there's been more than one "you're never too old for Anime" topic on this forum, but I'd like to share my personal experience.

A few years ago, I was engaged to be married. It's one of those things that makes you reflect on a lot of aspects of your life, your hobbies included. At the time, I had an Anime collection that spanned nearly 300 titles. It all started when I was in grade school, and my local video store put up a small sign on a single shelf that read "Japanimation". I saw that these videos were animated, just more "cartoons" to me at the time; but they looked different. And they had strange titles like, "M.D. Geist" and "Fist of the North Star" and "Vampire Hunter D". Didn't sound like any cartoon I'd ever heard of! So with my cash and rental card in hand, I grabbed a few titles and was off to my best friends house for a Friday night of soda, NES and "Japanimation". I wasn't prepared for the content on those tapes. I found them bizarre, violent, even sexual. I thought, "this isn't what cartoons are supposed to be like!". And they weren't. They were something much more. They were fascinating. And I wanted to see more. I know that those titles may be considered sub-standard to some now, but at the time they were the greatest thing I'd even seen on tape.

Fast forward twenty years. With a wedding looming ahead, and my job, independence and responsibilities overwhelming me, it seemed the right thing to do scrape up a little extra money for the upcoming honeymoon and soon-to-be-even-higher-than-before living expenses. I figured, among other things I'd collected over the years, that my Anime collection was bound to be worth something to somebody. After all, what does a married twenty-something young professional need with a closed full of Anime? So I did something I've regretted ever since. I sold them. All of them. In one big lot. For less than most of us would pay for a couple of premium boxed sets.

And here I am. Starting all over. I'm back up to almost 50 of my favorite titles, and don't plan on stopping. The moral of the story? You're never too old for something that makes you smile. So the next time you're about to make a potentially costly decision, please pause. Looking back, when I assured my new bride that I didn't need all of those DVD and VHS tapes, the only person I was trying to convince was myself.

I think I'd like to watch Akira now...

Take Care!

BonifaceVIII
09-01-2007, 09:12 PM
Heh, I've toyed with the idea of selling off the anime collection. In the end, I figured it wasn't worth it because (A) it's not gonna sell for a quarter as much as I paid for it and (B) I can take a lesson in youthful frivolity from it. Nothing wrong with having a symbol of bad financial decisions hanging on your wall.

Hell, I have one of those ever-regrettable chinese character tattoos on my back that I got drunk when I was 18, and still to this day am not exactly sure what it means. When I go to work in China in October, I'm sure it'll be a good ice-breaker.

Lego
09-01-2007, 09:55 PM
Same here. I ended up picking up the R2 Tsukihime box for a nice price so I still buy collection pieces like that. I have toyed with the notion of selling off pieces of my collection that I don't watch to don't even look at anymore. Still when I end up thinking about it I'd never get full market value and it'd be better just to leave it there.

Ty
09-01-2007, 10:06 PM
Yes, it would be a shame to abandon the hobby when you know you're still interested in it. I can't say I've regretted a sell-off like the one you did though. I did much the same thing with most of my old videogame collection, and to this day I haven't really missed any of it which confirms it was the right choice. I've always felt that if you ever look upon something you used to love and the word "clutter" enters your head then it's a clear sign the love affair is over for that particular hobby. I felt this way about my old games, but I've never felt that way about my other hobbies, which is why I still have those things but not my games anymore.

Vicserr
09-01-2007, 10:16 PM
Well, my collection has survived marriage, so it was hasty for you to abandon something you love for marriage but what's done is done and congratulations on your return to the hobby.

And last but not least, welcome to AOD, hope you survive the experience ;)

jlazar
09-01-2007, 10:17 PM
You've learned an important lesson:

Real girls are no substitute for anime. They are a supplement, each have their uses at various times. :) :neko:

SamuraiSam
09-01-2007, 10:49 PM
Thanks folks, it's nice to find a supportive crowd. I know it was a hasty and foolish decision, but I figured that if briefly making a fool out of myself by telling my story saves at least one other person from hocking the ol' anime collection, it's worth it. And speaking of rebuilding my collection, I checked my mailbox just a couple of hours ago, and found the Noir Complete Collection Thinpak waiting for me! That just made my day. Rightstuf.com is going to make me go broke... and I love it. :neko:

Serial Experiments Nobue
09-02-2007, 12:25 AM
Rightstuf.com is going to make me go broke... and I love it. :neko:

...and another notch is added to The Dark Lord's belt. :>

something
09-02-2007, 12:38 AM
I'm with the camp that wouldn't sell the collection. The return is just dismal relative to what was paid. And if I were ever in a situation where I needed money *that* badly, it probably isn't something that a sale of my collection can make a major dent in. And since I never plan on getting involved in any more relationships (let alone getting married!), I won't have to deal with your sort of situation either =P

mrsparklenoodle
09-02-2007, 08:23 AM
I hate relationships and love anime so I don't think I'll ever be in your situation. I have quite a bit of anime, some of it I am trying to sell (Neon Genesis Evangelion, Dominion Tank Police, Generator Gawl, Ranma 1/2 and a few others) the majority of it I really enjoy and want to keep forever. I can't really identify.

BonifaceVIII
09-02-2007, 10:31 AM
Moral of the thread: digital media is not a sound investment.

Sensuifu
09-02-2007, 11:15 AM
Nothing wrong with having a symbol of bad financial decisions hanging on your wall.

I took down my anime wallscrolls, save the Gunslinger Girl extra which is actually framed.

Sensuifu
09-02-2007, 11:17 AM
Moral of the thread: digital media is not a sound investment.

neither was analog. VHS/LD collection? Not a surprise if you have to pay someone to get rid of them.

Collectonian
09-02-2007, 12:51 PM
I took down my anime wallscrolls, save the Gunslinger Girl extra which is actually framed.

How did you frame your Gunslinger Girl extra? Did you find a frame that fit or take it someplace for custom framing? I've been wanting to frame mine :)

Sensuifu
09-03-2007, 12:44 AM
I took down my anime wallscrolls, save the Gunslinger Girl extra which is actually framed.

How did you frame your Gunslinger Girl extra? Did you find a frame that fit or take it someplace for custom framing? I've been wanting to frame mine :)

I found a frame at Michael's. Almost a perfect fit; the banner's corners aren't squared. pic (http://members.cox.net/~sensuifu/banner.jpg)